Thursday, April 22, 2010
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Do all ladies take that long to move on? Or is it just those that I know of?
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After living on this earth for just about 18 years this coming October, I find myself asking myself this exact same question every single time I console a lady friend after a break up. Do all Ladies take that long to move on?! Or is it just all those that I know of?
Well many people describe women as emotional, sentimental etc, but everytime I reflect upon my very own being, I find the words emotional, sentimental, sweet etc popping up in my head. Or maybe it's just the very distinct line that differentiate men and women. But the way I see it, since I kinda grew up learning from a ladies' point of view, I should at least understand how they feel. But somehow, I don't understand how can someone take so long to even get over someone. Is it just due to the fact that I am a down-to-earth, realistic person? Or am I just a cold blooded son of a bitch which I definitely am not. Okay maybe being extremely realistic and calm-minded is one of the best characteristics God has ever given me, and for that, I am truly grateful.
Yes I do admit that after the previous relationship, even though it was a few months, it took me a painstaking eight months to get over, but within that eight months, I find myself not thinking about her, even though deep down in my heart I know I like her. Whenever I look at myself, I do sometimes ask myself why do people even think about their previous relationship when they no longer has feelings for their past interest?
Every night I find myself questioning myself while staring at the wide array of stars, am I that different from the other guys that people just label as jerks? Not that I dislike being labelled by most of my lady friends that I am an almost extinct breed of guys, but should I feel proud about it?
Watching Sex and the city every night has definitely put many more unanswered questions into my head, and it kind of made me realise that many of my lady friends have actually moved on by having another guy love them, or for them to date other guys. Is this how the human society works? Or is it just my wishful thinking? Well as much as I would love to answer my own questions, I have come to realise that the only way I would ever ever answer those questions I have pose to myself, is that if I experience it for myself.
So once again, do all ladies take that long to move on? Or is it just those that I know of? Maybe our mistakes are what make our fate. Without them, what would shape our lives? Perhaps if we never veered off course, we wouldn't fall in love, or have babies, or be who we are. After all seasons change. So do cities. People come into your life and people go. But it's nevertheless comforting I must say to know the ones you love are always in your heart.
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